Most of us pay very little mind to the way we speak. We don’t realize that it influences the way people hear our message and interpret our intention. Conversely, we may notice how others speak to us. If someone talks to us in a strident, high-pitched manner, for instance, it may make us nervous. If someone speaks too monotonously, we may “zone out” and not really care about the message they are sending.

A kind, warm and inviting voice helps others around you relax and want to communicate with you. Take a moment today to notice your speaking voice. Can you make some improvements to it? Do you speak clearly and succinctly? Is the back of your throat open when you speak (which creates a richer sound) or is it closed off, constricted?

Your voice is a very direct extension of yourself. When you speak well, you create a positive energy around you. It’s the vocal ripple effect! Today, make some positive changes to the way you speak. You’ll notice it makes others around you feel better as well as giving you more poise and self-confidence.